Staying Positive In Every Situation

Positive thinking is expecting, talking and visualizing with certainty what you want to achieve, as an accomplished fact.

Positive thinking is one of the key to someone’s success. It gives you good and sound reasoning about negative things that is coming your way be it at work, at home or at play. Positivity makes you a better person inside and out.

However is there really an end in staying positive? When will someone say ENOUGH? What if you feel that people around you resent you or say something bad against you? What if someone stronger is really pinning you down, will you still stay positive and just move on?

For me, it doesn’t really matter it is YOU who would have to decide what action you would take. It is either you growl and leave or simply take a deep breath and move on.

Here are some of the few things I learn through the years.

A negative situation is really frustrating. Normally, I wear a mask I have developed through the years while I am thinking of a solution. My mask however is misinterpreted as a RANTING COMMENTARY KING OR QUEEN. For me it doesn’t matter. I would advise though that you Zip in when you are at the peak of your anger. Always calm yourself before opening your mouth. Always take a deep breath. Somehow taking a deep breath brings down the tension and fire.

Do whatever you do to calm yourself. What I normally do is go down take a heavy puff of ciga while I am screaming and discussing it with a real friend. Well this is how I do it to release all the tension I know you have your way.

When you need to talk to the people involved. It is always better to talk calmly. This would help neutralize the situation. Always look for opportunities to be positive. Ignore negative comments and action and look for the positive one. Get an inspiration to what is going around. Explore new things. Don’t be afraid to take on new roles and challenges.

While other people say mistakes as downgrading, an opportunity to pull you out of their way it is always best to see mistake as opportunity to be better. Learn from it. As George Bernard Shaw says, “A life spent making mistakes is not only more honorable, but more useful than a life spent doing nothing.”

There may be a lot more of tips and tricks of being positive out there. The truth is the higher you climb in life, the worse the negative situations would be, so you’d better be prepared for them. Read your bible it has helped me a thousand times when I am at the edge of giving up.